QUOTE (shonnae @ Jul 30 2009, 04:27 PM)

yep! I did it .I was catholic for 20 years just didnt fit in .I call the chunch to see if i need to send them a letter saying i no longer with the chunch, and I was a women,and now ordained ministry.well it didnt go well, he hung up on me.I am happy i did it. Now the family needs to know.But its about me and i happy i did it .
My family is use to me doing things my way.. I knew however that Mom would have a bit of a hard time accepting me becoming ordained the way I did. Mom’s glad I am working on my spiritual life, Mom is not a real strict Christian, in fact her belief system comes close to mine. She’s just use to the traditional way of becoming ordained with going to collage and taking years to do so. In fact she let me know that she does not want me to perform her funeral because she prefers a more traditional Minister. (in other words one that went to collage.) She even felt that I had taken something away from her Pastor. I told Mom she has a wonderful Pastor I could never take anything from her. I explained that the reason her Pastor is wonderful has nothing to do with the collage its because its in her heart. I explained that True Ministry comes from the heart. Moms trying to accept it and I know she will in time. She just strange that way.
Dad and Mom are Divorced. My Dad now lives in a Rehabilitation Nursing Home. Dad is proud of me. I let Mom know that but well that’s Mom. I accept her the way she is.
Like Pathfinder says stay true in spirit. I have found when you live a life in accordance to others rules no one finds any satisfaction. It’s your life and you live it, you must follow your inner desire. God has placed it there therefore its right.
Good luck in your Journey.. Oh yeah, My husband went to a catholic school, they actually made him an alter boy. The Priest there called him Doubting Thomas,. (His name is Tom) He did not accept the doctrine either. The Catholic Church actually x communicated His mother by for marrying a Lutheran. I had been raised Baptist they maybe somewhat strict but not as strict at the Catholics. Have Fun, Sincerely Reverend Penny.