QUOTE (Gary Konecky @ Jul 3 2009, 02:08 AM)

Hello Gary,
I couldn't agree more. Pride is such an important occasion. My partner and I are celebrating 20 years together this year, and the changes in 'tolerance' (a word I dislike immensely, because I don't think I need to be just tolerated - it's my life) have been profound. Unfortunately, there is still a lot of prejudice out there. I'm from the UK and we don't quite have some of the hate groups that I've seen evidence of here in the US, but it's still a difficult choice to come out, and Pride can be the one day for some people that they can be out and proud. Then it's back in the closet for another year. That is so sad. But I can empathise - it took me a long time to be totally out because I was afraid of how everyone would take it. In the end it was no big deal - a few tears from mum, but the world didn't end, I wasn't hit with a lightning bolt. Life went on, and I realised that actually I had the right to be just who I am. I'm not hurting anyone, I'm in a completely loving relationship, and two years ago, unlike in many places in the US, my partner and I were 'married'. It's a civil partnership, but we now have the same rights as other married heterosexual couples, so we're protected in and by law.
We live in Brighton, which has it's own Pride march/parade and is a great occasion. It's later - August 2 this year - but that's probably because we're hoping for nice weather and August is the likeliest month! We first went when Pride started in Brighton. There was no parade and the main event was maybe seven stalls selling stuff and giving out information. There were probably 100 people there. Year by year it grew and now people come from all over the country. There's a huge march and parade that finishes at a park and there are so many things to do. Plus you get around half a million people there from all walks of life, homosexual, homosexual, bi, trans, straight, parents supporting their homosexual kids, kids supporting their homosexual parents. We both work with Pride and the magazine they produce every year, interviewing people, writing articles and proofreading. It feels so good to be giving something to the community. We also both volunteer for Hospital Radio and do a live broadcast on the day.
We've done the New York Pride once, which was incredible. This year we were in San Francisco for the Saturday events, but had to leave before the march. But we saw all the activity and again it was amazing.
To anyone who has a chance to see Pride wherever you are, whatever side of the life spectrum you are on, do it!
Kind regards,
Steve