Hi all, I'm apparently wading into a metaphysical and legal quagmire here.
Myself and my fiance are getting married in March. We really, really want our close friend to do the wedding. Any google searches of course lead here and to the ULC.
Searching around the forum, I find a lot of threads that are basically "well, sort of legal, but not really, but sort of!". That's not very heartening to hear
We want to have our friend ordained through the ULC. He's in a fairly bohemian group of friends as it is, so being ordained in general may be of some utility to him. It also helps that he tends to be a religious free thinker (as are both of us), so I suppose we could theoretically argue the ministry clause.
Our County Clerk office is useless (Monroe County), they seem aghast that I would ever ask about wedding officiants in the first place... taxpayer money hard at work, I assure you.
Okay, so anyway, I apologize for digressing. Here's the meat and potatoes:
1) Is the ULC legally recognized in the State of Michigan? (I'm assuming it is, the threads here don't argue that point)
2) If so, is my friend getting ordained for the (present) goal of officiating our marriage legal?
3) If the above is "maybe", what makes it legal and what makes it not?
4) I really don't like "maybe".. if no, why not?
5) If it is legal, what does my friend / us have to provide to the county clerk to make it legal?
I appreciate any help. I don't come from a religious background, so my knowledge of weddings is extremely thin. Likewise, legal terms tend to make my eyes water.
Thanks,
Josh